Life "marriage-style" living one, misperceptions and false expectations about life, also applies to marriage.
As Confucius would be appropriate to mention here to understand these words;
"Many are happy to seek out higher than man, some of the lower; but happiness is a long line of people. "(Kikos Kazantzakis, Zorba, Can spring. 2003, p.95)
If people do not know the size of the neck, ie, capabilities, and do not recognize the opportunities to develop, expectations, happiness is not possible to capture the opportunities and the ability to overcome.
Suitable woman to be happy when viewed from this perspective, it is the woman who knows herself. One seeking happiness from their height above the level, you will find it. If you have this basic requirement, then men can do anything to please a woman. And they did it for her, you will also return to it also as happiness.
Since the marriage of man to be happy, happy should appear next to the woman.
Be happy the woman is the first condition of man to be happy.
As the quality of a society that must be measured by the quality of the society of women, happiness and peace of mind to say it would depend on the woman's happiness and tranquility would not be wrong.
Happy child without mother, without the male partner happy, happy illusion that women expect to be happy without society.
Woman "Prepare to Happiness"
Of men and women before marriage "woman of the heart" is. With femininity, tries to call her by that overlooked the EDA. After marriage and children also began to be consecutive, the woman of the man's heart "woman of the house" becomes.
Thus man's heart may be discharged.
If this gap discovered by others, may appear from behind a series of dangers to remove the unhappy event.
Ladies "home" to take the forefront, besides the need to check whether or not to fall into a position to neglect his wife, the men do not want to lose the happiness since women should strive towards keeping close to the hearts of his wife.
To be happy since women first need to prepare her happiness. Because, if he is not happy, it can not be a better chance of happiness with the man with her ..
For if the woman is not happy, you first need to know what and how to be happy with her.
HAPPY WOMEN WILL APPROACH
Women Do not have a morbid personality, implementation can make him happy with extremely easy way and so you "happy woman" s you can get a chance to be happy.
This behavior, "not the man for the happy" shall mean the preparation of men by women.
Here, women will be applied across a man who wants to be happy is simple but important rules;
I learn Appreciation, you increase the enthusiasm!
Being admired women are appreciated, they liked to hear a good word.
Know that you are loved and appreciated would make them happy. Thanks and appreciation towards them should never be neglected.
In fact appreciated "securities know" is. The Securities know, indicates that who knows precious asset.
While it is important for everyone to be appreciated, it is even more vital for women.
It also will encourage enthusiasm and will do better. Full of love and appreciate them more easily and can not promise anything that motivates.
However, it should be done before the vandalism. After breaking into the hearts Otherwise, it may not matter what the forgiveness of the world.!
II. Compliment get enchanted!
A woman most, he believed came from inside, with a beautiful promise he would be happy to doubt the sincerity. Compliment the desire to see his wife is like the earth needs rain dehydrated.
Somehow it seems like this is very difficult for men. They declined to say a good word to flatter the woman.
However, it seems like a good word for them to forgive the world.
You will not get the tangible sacrifice, it is possible to win in this way. Compliment your tenth, you will create the feeling of not compliment.
Especially compliment them enough to revel in addition to others!
A sweet supposedly more "sweet" is no water.
Compliment is the antidote to the cold feeling.
Your words of compliment not only prevent the negative emotions that may occur to you, raise good feelings in you. Compliment the person you are heaped, like blooming flowers begin to appear beautiful in your eyes.
In fact, most of what you see it, your back is a reflection of the behavior that you show him.
I'd be happy to compliment the woman is a happy woman flourish. At the same time, you will complement your outlook and your happiness will increase it.
If you want to be with a beautiful woman, this is the shortest road ahead.
III. After the break, not the reward before the break; You rejoice!
Usually men when they mistake themselves, they need to do something to remedy the situation. Get something, like to take you to a place or a good word to say! But a broken heart repaired immediately perceived effort here.
"Apology" would mean replacing these behaviors are important things to do when there is no obvious error. The reward before without any problems create feelings of gratitude and reveals the idea that seriously.
"The men will make a mistake, it's a nice word or a gift on the future" would uneasy conditioning of women. It can bring and redeem frequent repeated after a while, even those made by the logic of disgust occur.
Style redeem himself in the psychology of guilt approaches wants women "masculine" behaviors are not. Even perceived incapacity to.
IV. Show him that you remember the little things, big thumbs happiness
Most women in the world is composed of the border drawn by the wife.
Life hands her husband's expectations will be realized. It is therefore noted that wants to know how often remembered. If unhappy forgotten how to think, would be to that extent also gratifying to see that remembered. Even though to offer a wildflower.!
When your face; "He came out of me!" He should be able to.
These women will be enough to be as happy as we can not predict.
There is no need to often great sacrifices for it. The meaning of the gift for a lady mature and personality are important!
You need to know that the little things, happiness, great things facility and perhaps perceived as a bribe.
V. him, "as one exits with" Quit that, you get romance
Men, family members of a meal, wander around in, to take a vacation they usually do in a sense of duty. Sometimes they are very willing to do without it.
If someone is not willing to work she did not expect to enjoy.
Reluctantly made will not taste a job. Even when angry thesis, crushers words and actions, mutual system are observed.
However, as a volunteer, sincere enthusiasm, a trip to the interest to enjoy, head to head for a meal or a holiday, happiness becomes a reinforcement for both sides.
Business and problems without speaking, without children, the third one; relatives, no one should go without such friends! That it should come; such interest before marriage! Or as someone else out! It would not be happy to hear her. If so, it is not healthy.
VI. Sensuality for women "sexuality" means skin before; Show your duygusallığı that, whether pleasurable sexuality!
Especially when it comes to sexuality is not ihmalet emotional acting. Because sexuality is not like toilet needs, whether sensuality.!
Scratching sex sexuality for a happy union undeniable importance, but most men will install a selfish attitude about it. Without emotional expressions and behaviors, attitudes, and only to give the impression he thought himself.
Whereas women to see whether emotional attitudes and priorities in sexuality. Digest of neglect. Especially hospitalized man's work is finished, go back to fit them badly.
With beautiful words, their desire to be that the recognition of their priority.
Otherwise, wives, albeit man go to bed so they can not be perceived differently for rape. They feel they are used. Resentment, anger, show responses in the form of anger.
It's always like that in the case of repetition, they begin to behave increasingly cold and reluctant. He, in fact, sees his wife as the culprit for this problem caused himself.
Women, you know to prepare for the wife and the male is able to cater to her, marriage, sexuality is just a "task" or "chore" creates goes beyond perceived as manic and refreshes the taste of marriage and complementary dynamics.
VII. Keep your promise that your partner is not alleged, in essence "male" You get to enjoy the togetherness
An important addition to the emotional meaning of the union of a man and woman dahav to that, it also; "Trust needs" is the meeting. Shelter, will be protected financially to feel a presence at the side of the spiritual patronage will see .. live in confidence provided by the person to be sure that your loved one
"Seven" and "trust" that except for one, and any other institutions that need to be considered to meet people.
These needs will dispatch them to behave in a very serious thing or two. "Word" and "love."
They seriously joy and love, the love behind "as the boy" will stop. Like men, do not show a form of escape behavior tighten. Than men to reach their loved ones resist much more.
On the other hand, they also want to keep the promises.
Do not forget his promise to the man or downplay them thank you very unhappy.
As in the statement, promise, while this "man said" and that should be fulfilled knowing.
This, in that they "trust" is essential to meet the needs. Otherwise, do not stand next to a man in question would not be able to feel comfortable and confident in themselves. The women who do not feel safe in what could be happy, nor happiness can give.
Who wants to be happy with them, you must show that men with promise. Without thinking, you should definitely avoid the mere promise to stave off early.
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